As an outsider (and someone with this name situation), I’m morbidly curious about what happens when a kid has a name that’s the opposite gender as them, either because it’s a gender neutral name in their culture, or because their parents just named them like that? Because I have a sneaking suspicion they’re suddenly going to be fine with ‘unapproved nicknames’ when their alternative is calling a boy Vyvian or a girl Terrance