• Rehwyn@lemmy.world
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        Tap water in the US costs on average about $0.01 per gallon or less. People typically drink a gallon or less per day, so about $0.30 per month. Your water bill is pretty much not affected by the tap water you drink, just the water you use for everything else.

        Bottled water is easily hundreds of times the cost.

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    Getting married in about 6 weeks. Compared to my first one 10 years ago, it’s nuts. One metric I read said that wedding costs were up 40% post COVID. My first wedding was maybe $5,000 and that was super strict budget. This one is closer to $25k.

    My fiancée was quoted between $300-650 for makeup only. Seriously?? DJ is minimum $900 for 5 hours of work, I got a lot of quotes in the $1300 range, or $2200 for better lighting ($440/hour??) Look I know you had to buy your own equipment but holy hell.

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        There are a lot of people who just have weddings with only the closest parts of their friend/family circle rather than making it auper extravagant.

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      You can buy a good quality speaker that comes with free Amazon music at best buy for less than that. If you have a friend that doesn’t mind talking on a mic infrastructure of a crowd you are probably better off without a real dj, your friend would also likely get the names right for your wedding party being announced.

      We paid over 1k for dj+wedding video, and it really wasn’t worth it.

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        I didn’t have a DJ the first time around, just a laptop and Spotify playlist (was at a church that has a speaker system, so we got to hook into that). It was fine, but we booked an actual venue for this wedding.

        No idea if I’ll feel like it was really worth it when it’s all said and done, but so far I actually like all the vendors picked.

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          Hey, we just got married for around your price point back in May. It was pricey for sure, but that budget allowed us to do what we wanted, which was throwing a balls-out party for 50 of our closest family and friends. It was incredible and we absolutely do not regret it.

          People always tell you that it’s supposed to be the best day of your life, but I always checked my expectations on that—something can always go wrong, right? But it went off perfectly and felt as incredible as we had always dreamed. A big part of that was the team of amazing vendors our planner put together. None of it would have been possible without them.

          Wishing you both incredible happiness and a smooth wedding day full of bliss that you can look back on for years to come :)

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          It’s great if you’ve got the space to store large amounts of stuff. When I got my first house I went out and bought a couple big dog food containers, and filled them with 50lb bags of flour and sugar from Costco for less than $20 for both bags. Now I can bake all I want and never worry about running out of the essentials.

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    Never, ever, book a location for a “Wedding”. Always book it for a “Family Event”.

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    Reminds me of a blog I followed about a guy having a castle built. He’d get contractors out for various bits and before they arrived they’d be like “oh its X for job Y” but when they got there and saw that it was for a castle, well magically the cost doubled. This might make sense in some parts but when the painter is trying to increase his price for square footage he quoted on the phone? Nah fam that ain’t it.

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    People tend to demand perfection when it comes to weddings. I’m pretty sure that’s why it’s mute expensive. In general, prices rise alongside expectations.

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    if i went to a friends wedding, and they were charging for water, i would just leave. is this even a thing cause it sounds fake as hell.

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      I think the joke is about caterers doing this. Book a photographer session vs a wedding photographer and the prices are going to be drastically different.

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      Normal dress: 1000 dollars

      Wedding dress: 10000 dollars

      Check out the price of wedding cakes vs similar amounts of normal cake

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        There is an acceptable markup for a tiered and decorated wedding cake vs a grocery store sheet cake. There are also lots of places that charge way above that rate.