Just for completeness sake, the usual way of accessing a server is over SSH, using the console. That would be openssh-server on the pi and openssh-client on the laptop.
Also, I don’t know if it’s available on ARM, but Sunshine and Moonlight run so much faster than VNC. It’s meant for gaming but works perfectly fine for remote desktop access. Sunshine is the server and Moonlight is the client.
Just for completeness sake, the usual way of accessing a server is over SSH, using the console. That would be openssh-server on the pi and openssh-client on the laptop.
Also, I don’t know if it’s available on ARM, but Sunshine and Moonlight run so much faster than VNC. It’s meant for gaming but works perfectly fine for remote desktop access. Sunshine is the server and Moonlight is the client.
I just need top connect remotely to desktop from time to time (lazy to go to the next room). What about Remmina - never used it?